quantity vs quality
evaluation
Buy less, choose well. -Vivienne Westwood
Evaluating my life has been a natural habit for years. Every few months I sit back and pull out my roster of events and the people in it. I see who is valuable and who is of use in my life, who has caused grief, and who has brought joy into my life.
Having the ability to eliminate anything that we think will jeopardize our future is a blessing in itself. Just like going shopping for clothes, you know your style and the type of outfit you would like. You precisely choose accessories to accent it. When it comes to recruiting friends, I prefer quality over quantity.
Do the people in your life compliment who you are?
Are they the mink coat that keeps you warm during those cold times?
Are they the Phillipe Patek watch on your wrist that values your time?
Are they the Stuart Weitzman pair of shoes that take you into places that will elevate you and protect you on your journey?
Certain friends and family may not understand your reasoning for restricting access to you when they have no more power in your life.
Some people enjoy being in your audience to cheer you on and others want to see what failure they can find but will still applaud you.
(Can I get an amen?)
This is why it is crucial to keep a list of who is connected to you physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
We all have things and people we subconsciously hold on to that we are not aware of. Certain people we’ve let in a little too long and ideas we’ve put on hold because of procrastination. It feels like life has taken a pit stop to play on a merry-go-round; until you decide when to get off and go on the next ride. The lessons we learn aren’t always clear to us at the moment that we experience them. Sometimes it takes a step back to see the big picture. Be prepared. Have the proper tools to fix areas in your life that need to be worked on or removed. Take the time to process the changes. Everything doesn’t need to always be replaced. The mind of a minimalist is very intriguing to me; only have what they need, nothing more. It is easy to manage things and see without having to possess a storage of junk. Less baggage allows you to move swiftly if need be.
I’ve noticed earlier in my life; that I would hoard people. I held onto friendships because I was scared to lose that person, even if they didn’t mean well. This was my life’s personal virus.
The Temptation of Quantity
Quantity is the siren song of modern life. We're bombarded with messages that more is better, that productivity is measured in output, and that success is synonymous with accumulation. It's easy to fall into the trap of pursuing quantity, whether it's the number of tasks checked off on our to-do list, the volume of possessions we accumulate, or the sheer quantity of social media likes and followers.
While quantity can offer a sense of accomplishment and visibility, it often comes at a cost. Pursuing quantity can lead to burnout, shallow relationships, and a focus on superficial metrics rather than true fulfillment.
The Elegance of Quality
Quality, on the other hand, embodies a sense of refinement and discernment. It's about focusing on depth rather than breadth, on the intrinsic value of what we do or have rather than sheer volume. Quality encourages us to slow down, savor experiences, and invest in what truly matters to us.
Quality relationships are built on trust, empathy, and meaningful connections. Quality work is the result of dedication, attention to detail, and craftsmanship. Quality possessions are cherished and endure the test of time. Quality experiences leave a lasting imprint on our hearts and memories.
After all, what good is having more if it doesn't bring genuine happiness and satisfaction?
