I AM MY OWN STANDARD OF LUXURY

I AM MY OWN STANDARD OF LUXURY

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Self Seduction course

Self Seduction is an intimate course designed to awaken the most powerful woman you’ve been hiding , the one who doesn’t chase, the one who doesn’t beg, the one who commands a room with her silence. 

This course isn’t about pleasing others. It’s about remembering who you are, falling in love with your own reflection, and learning to seduce life itself before anyone else gets the chance.
Inside, you'll master the art of inner power, emotional control, luxury habits, and the subtle language of attraction,  all starting with you. Every lesson is designed to elevate your presence, sharpen your mind, and deepen your pleasure in being a woman of mystery, power, and discipline.

This is for the woman who refuses to be ordinary.

Let the seduction begin.
Welcome to your next level.

Start Fresh with the Life Evaluation Workbook

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The Life Evaluation Workbook is a powerful tool to help you take an honest look at your life and the people in it. It helps you see clearly where you are with those closest in your life and what needs to change.

After you finish the workbook, you can book a private consultation. We’ll go over your answers together and build a step-by-step plan to help you improve your life in a real, meaningful way. You don’t have to figure everything out alone. Start with this workbook. Then let us help you create your next chapter.

NEW BLOG

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As we enter the third quarter of 2025, the time for excuses, distractions, and half-done goals is over. This blog is your command center for realignment. Here, you’ll learn how to reinforce what’s working, eliminate what’s draining you, and restructure your life for results, not reactions.

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NEW
COLLECTION

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Black Glossy Coffee Mug + White Tumbler
Sip in silence. This sleek, black glossy mug is more than just a morning essential, it’s a statement. Along with our white Tumbler that adds a touch of luxury to your gym time, or mom duties! Designed for women who command their mornings with elegance and intention.

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SPRING 2025 BUSINESS EDITION

“Some women read magazines. Other women collect power.”
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AMAZON KINDLE EDITION AVAILABLE

  • In this chapter, learn how to cultivate a disciplined practice of silence, controlling the flow of personal information and limiting access to your true self. This creates an aura of mystery and protects your personal life, allowing you to navigate the world with increased mental clarity and awareness.

  • Discover how to design a unique, personal set of guiding principles that define how you move in private and public spaces. These codes help you develop an elevated mindset by staying true to your values while maintaining control over your actions, emotions, and boundaries.

  • Explore techniques to create an intriguing and powerful persona that commands respect and interest. By living a minimal, strategic lifestyle and building relationships in silence, you enhance your presence, sharpen your awareness, and elevate your life on every level.

AVAILABLE COURSES

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The Art of Financial Privacy

The Art of Financial Privacy is an elite course revealing millionaire secrets to keeping wealth invisible and untouchable. Learn how to move money in silence, protect assets through LLCs and trusts, leverage offshore banking, and operate beyond government control. Master the strategies of the rich, own nothing, control everything, and safeguard your empire from prying eyes.

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Wellness: Morning and Evening Routine

Transform your mornings and evenings into a luxurious experience inspired by five-star hotel amenities. This course will guide you through creating a sophisticated and indulgent daily routine, focusing on self-care, wellness, and an elevated lifestyle.

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Luxe Travel

Welcome to Luxury Travel, the ultimate course designed for those who aspire to elevate their travel experiences to unparalleled heights. As your private luxury life coach, I am thrilled to share the secrets and strategies that have transformed my own journeys into extraordinary adventures. Including exclusive travel tips, booking private jets and industry expert accomadations!

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How to be a Mystery

Explore the art of being a mystery and how it can enhance our lives in various aspects.

Digital products

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COACHING SERVCES

Hello, I’m Shanelle Black a no-nonsense, results-driven private life coach specializing in transforming lives with precision and purpose. With a unique blend of tough love, strategic planning, and unwavering accountability, I empower my clients to break through barriers, create structure, and elevate their personal and professional lives.

I’m known for my discretion, I work exclusively with individuals ready to commit to real change and take control of their future. My coaching approach is unapologetically direct, tailored to each client’s unique goals, and rooted in practical, actionable steps that deliver lasting results.

When you book with me, we don’t just talk about your goals. We execute. I’m here to build a blueprint for your life that covers every corner.

  • When you book with me, we don’t just talk about your goals. We execute. I’m here to build a blueprint for your life that covers every corner:

    • Your Time: Learn how to prioritize what truly matters and stop wasting time on distractions.

    • Your Money: Set up budgets, savings plans, and teach you how to stop spending like you’re rich when you’re barely making it.

    • Your Mindset: Reprogram those self-sabotaging thoughts and replace them with discipline and focus.

    • Your Habits: I’ll help you break toxic cycles and build habits that work for your success, not against it.

    • Your Plan: Whether it’s a personal goal, a career move, or managing your home like a pro, we’ll map out a plan — and then I’ll make sure you stick to it.

  • This isn’t a feel-good chat over coffee. When you book me, you’re committing to real work:

    • Accountability: You’ll report to me weekly. No fluff, no excuses.

    • Action Plans: You’ll leave every session knowing exactly what to do next. If you don’t do it? We’ll have a very honest conversation.

    • Tough Love: If you’re slacking, I’ll call you out. If you’re winning, I’ll celebrate with you. Either way, I’m right there by your side.

    • Structure: I’ll help you build systems so you’re not scrambling to survive day-to-day.

  • Let’s be real: I’m not for everyone. My clients are:

    1. Tired of their own excuses and ready to change.

    2. Willing to take action, even when it’s uncomfortable.

    3. Serious about making 2025 the year they stop dreaming and start doing.

    If that’s you, here’s the deal: You’re either going to put the work in or stay stuck in the same cycle you’re in right now. And you already know how that feels.

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  • Life is the childhood of our immortality

    -Goethe

  • Do not think of knocking out another person's brains because he differs in opinion from you. It would be as rational to knock yourself on the head because you differ from yourself ten years ago.

    -Horace Mann

  • The Chinese write the word "crisis" with two characters. One means danger and the other means opportunity. Together they spell "crisis"

    -Saul D. Alinsky

  • Learning without thought is labor lost; thought without learning is perilous

    -Confucius